Welcome to an experiment in blogging

This is a new experience for me and it's not something I was very likely to do! A good friend of mine decided to begin a blog of her own to give her a chance to write and write with something of a focus....golf! We belong to the Western New Mexico Lunatic Fringe Golf Association, where our rules most definitely differ from most. My friend's blog chronicles our exploits on the golf course and often the writing has at least something to do with the game of golf.

During a frantic period of holiday baking, I had an intense need to write. I had hundreds of cookies to bake in one day but I actually took the time to write about the cookies I was baking. They were from a recipe given to me by a coworker almost 40 years ago and when I realized how long this recipe had been used, year after year for forty years, I was stunned. I decided to use the blog format to chronicle my entry into late middle age, a state of age I'd been in denial about before this.

So here it is, my blog, my life. It's nothing exceptional, so if you're limited on time, move along. I'll be using the blog to work on my writing ability while trying to express my feelings about being where I am right now.

Christmas on Windsor St.

Christmas on Windsor St.
Here she is! Mom & me!

baby, oh baby

baby, oh baby
early family life...where's mom?

Thursday, June 17, 2010

On the Gunflint Trail














A few days spent at Gunflint Lodge on the Gunflint Trail in Minnesota make the hot summers in New Mexico more tolerable. Canoeing, kayaking, hiking and EATING are just a few of the activities that kept us busy during our stay at the lodge. The high temps were in the 60's - quite a difference from the high 90's and record breaking 100's I left behind in Farmington and Albuquerque. My favorite excursion during the trip included a canoe which was a replica of a birch bark canoe used by the Voyagers who settled this extreme northern landscape of Minnesota. We left the lodge in the early afternoon and our paddle captain, John, was surprised four women could maintain a powerful rhythm, propelling the canoe forward, fast and furiously. We paddled across Gunflint Lake, approached the narrows which separates the lake from Magnetic Lake, then proceeded across Magnetic Lake and on to the Magnetic River. We anchored the canoe just before the rock strewn rapids and hiked down river to view more rapids where we witnessed a group of canoeists portaging the rapid upstream. This group dragged their canoes up over the rocks and our paddle captain shook his head at their lack of proper technique. Because we were on the Canadian side of the river, we took a picture of ourselves in Canada - no passport needed!
Another totally enjoyable activity at Gunflint Lodge is eating the food and I had my fair share of Walleye on this trip - cashew encrusted, pepper coated and even a deep fried Walleye sandwich - yum! When I return to New Mexico and reality, my first impulse is to dial up Weight Watchers and try to delete the pounds put on in Minnesota. The hikes, the kayaking, the canoeing don't seem to make a difference because the food is abundant and too difficult to resist.
Another trip to Gunflint has ended and I now savor the memories and look forward to next year's trip.

Tuesday, May 25, 2010

The lovely, the eerie, the irritating wind


What the heck is going on here? It's been day after day, after day, of wind. The views are hazy continuously and it's impossible to get anything productive done in the yard without suffering for it later....allergies aggravated, and sinus issues developing as a result of the everlasting wind. Not a day has gone by without wind lately and I am done with it! Is this a new development from global warming? I can't say I remember the extreme wind being a part of springtime 20 years ago - was I just not noticing or is this an insidious outcome of a planet in decline?


Despite the eerie weather, spring planting has begun and the poppies are popping, the roses are blooming and the lilacs have been here and gone. Before the wind begins and when it's done, chores are accomplished, pots get planted and fence pickets get stained and sealed. It's all part of the preparation for relaxing on the patio in the heat of summer when it's too hot to play golf!


Speaking of golf, Katie and I played yesterday at Civitan, and Vicki, the NMLFGA president, joined us for a few holes after she played a round with other local members. It was quite the chilly day to start out, and after the other regular golfers departed, we felt like Civitan was our private course. The day warmed up nicely, the wind subsided, and after playing almost 15 holes, we all departed on our own paths. My own path took me to my own backyard to admire my newest poppy bloom. It's just another day in paradise.

Sunday, March 21, 2010

Winter, winter, go away


Winter, winter, go away, all the golfers want to play......


After skiing yesterday, a friend and I played golf today at our favorite course, Civitan, in Farmington. What a great day - sunshine, a cool breeze, and lots of citizens on the course, playing nice together. We did as well as we usually do - and that's variable - but had a great time, par for the course!


The winter seemed unending, especially with snow storm after snow storm hitting us here in the Four Corners. Of course the weather we received can in no way compare to the rest of the country and what they experience each and every winter. However, we are a bit spoiled. When it snows, it melts - rather quickly. We can drive, we can tool around town, and NO shoveling usually occurs! This winter was a little different in terms of shoveling and my aching back knows it. We'll have lots of water coming our way this spring and summer, an unbelievable plus for us in the high desert.


Last week saw Golf I starting again, the sixth time, at least, for me. Our new instructor is Ryan, a young man going pro this year. He has many helpful suggestions and is very polite and soft spoken. We were on the driving range at Riverview Golf Course in Kirtland for Thursday's class and Ryan gave me more of a clue about how to aim the ball. I practiced his tips today and actually saw my golf ball go where I intended quite a few times - remarkable!


More to come in the weeks ahead - golf, hiking, and best of all - Spring!

Saturday, February 6, 2010

Shopping for shoes with my brother


I love to shop. I look at everything, touch everything, ponder owning and wearing everything - but I rarely buy. It has to be a REALLY good deal or I cannot imagine living without it, and then I'll buy. Many years ago while shopping with my brother at the best sale ever at Dillards in El Paso, he said those fateful words I've never forgotten, "You can't afford NOT to buy it!" That phrase has been my mantra whenever there happens to be a great sale wherever I shop. This small remembrance prefaces my little shopping spree the day after Christmas with my brother Jim.

We decided to take the plunge, and succumbed to all the after Christmas shopping ads. Jim needed a new pair of shoes, an event which only happens every 5 or 10 years. I just wanted to be a part of the action! My sister-in-law decided to stay home and I didn't know until much later in the day exactly why she made that decision. We only had a few stores on our hit list, but most places we were to go had a men's shoe department. How hard can it be for Jim to find a pair of shoes, I innocently thought.

Our first stop was J.C. Penney and it was here I discovered just how picky a man can be when he's making an infrequent shoe purchase. As I surveyed the stock of shoes, the color range seemed to be relatively limited - black and brown, to be precise. However, these shades of black and brown were not the correct shade of black and brown, according to my brother Jim. In addition, the style of shoe he desired was not present in this particular department, so off we went, searching for that perfect pair of shoes. Wherever we went, I found the styles displayed were never anything Jim would wear. Some shoes were too dressy, some too casual, some just too ugly, he said.

At long last we came to the little shoe boutique at Coronado Mall. You know the one - it has the best brands at the highest prices. Jim found two acceptable pairs of shoes but I dreaded the moment he saw the price tags. He's a chip off the old block, and my dad would not consider paying 100.00 for a pair of shoes, never mind a few hundred! Jim tried both pair on and settled on one, thinking he might return the next month and get the other pair when I encouraged him to buy both. As he paid for his shoes, he had a minor tremor when he realized how much the shoes were costing him. I assured him this was a totally acceptable price and the shoes were well worth it. I informed him I regularly paid more than this for a nice pair of shoes.

Later that day we stopped by Dillards and found the most fantastic men's shoe department with at least one style Jim actually liked! He bookmarked his brain to remember this shoe department in 5 or 10 years when he was ready to buy his next new pair of shoes. When we arrived home in the south valley eight hours later, I told my sister-in-law she owed me, big time. She smiled and said, "I know".




Saturday, January 9, 2010

Books on sale, books on sale........




There is nothing like a book sale to get me going - and not necessarily in a good way. There I was, Friday night at the mall, when walking through and right by other stores, I spotted Waldenbooks which is having a "Going Out of Business" sale. 50% off is tough to resist, especially when it's 50% off books! I'm quite susceptible to anything book related and I seem to think I will someday read all these books I purchase. One day when stopping at the Farmington Public Library, I noticed people leaving the library toting boxes of books. It was another one of my lucky days - it was a library book sale. Despite having donated many books to the library, I proceeded to the sale and bought at least six - hopefully none I had donated.

Last night during my version of "Happy Hour", I bought only three books, a testimony to my fantastic restraint and slim wallet before payday next week. One book purchased is "the conscious cook", a book I've been coveting since last month after hearing about it on NPR. I bought it for my cousin Dina as a Christmas gift but hadn't gotten around to getting one for myself. I did last night and at half price. What a deal. I also purchased another book I've been thinking about for over a year - "You on a Diet". Isn't this the time of year to make such purchases? Everyone is talking about getting in shape, going on a diet and increasing the amount of exercise they do each day. I'm there! The third book purchased is Karin Slaughter's "Beyond Reach", another in her series with Sara Linton, Jeffery Tolliver, and Lena Adams as her protagonists. Her novels are suspenseful and great fun. I will definitely read it one day, just as I'll eventually read all the books I've purchased and remain in a bookcase, on a bookshelf, or hiding inside a cabinet somewhere!

Thursday, December 24, 2009

Christmas eve day 2009

Christmas eve day brings back memories of many spent with family in Enfield. The Polish traditions were upheld, starting with delicious mushroom soup containing mushrooms picked by my grandmother, aunts and mother in the northeastern woods. Grandma was the authority for the most potentially delicious and safe mushrooms for the soup. She would take them home, string them for drying in the summer to be eaten months later in a soup never to be duplicated! We ate whitefish and pierogi also made earlier by Grandma, using her never to be imitated dough recipe. The only person to come close to Grandma's recipe for pierogi is my cousin Steve. He and his daughter Katie are well known for making pierogi and no doubt, it has something to do with Steve's inability to get enough stuffed in him on Christmas eve.
Our mothers sang carols in Polish and I especially remember Silent Night and learning to sing it myself in Polish. We would open gifts under Grandma's tree on Christmas eve and at the time I believe it was all about the presents. It's only now, 50 years later, I realize it was all about family.

Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Another lovely day in Charm town

A light snow dusted the backyard and not so distant bluffs to the south. It's another lovely day in Farmington. The sun came out and melted snow and ice on the streets, making travel possible for everyone going to work or shopping for the holiday - do we live in a great place or what? No worries about shoveling, power outages, or cars careening off the road.
This morning I baked Italian cookies I've been making since high school when a work friend gave me the recipe. Her name is Gay and she reigned over the dressing room in the budget section of G. Fox & Co. almost 40 years ago. These cookies are now a part of my holiday tradition. The dough is unusal and adding rum adds a wonderful flavor to it. The only filling fit for these wondrous cookies is made by Solo of Illinois. Poppy seed, apricot, raspberry, and plum are all potential fillings each year. This morning I used apricot and after testing a small sample I made especially for the taste test, decided them to be absolutely delicious. Thank you Gay!